Kids are unpredictable. You never know what they are going to do next - even if you have the best of routines. They may get sick, have the sudden urge to cuddle you constantly, decide to have a toilet training accident just as you are about to head out to a meeting, or whatever it is. No matter how well you have your day planned, kids are unpredictable.
So, as a business mum, how do you cope? Unfortunately there is no one size fits all answer, but here are some of the things I do to make my day easier.
First thing, accept that kids are unpredictable. Some days they will sleep on time and be happy to play on their own while you make a phone call, check emails, or pack orders, and other days they won’t. Accept that this is part of being a business mum.
Second, give the kids a job! It may be business related or something to make home life easier, such as putting their toys away. If possible, give them a job that is in the same room as you, so they’re “working with Mummy”. My kids love helping stick stamps on envelopes and getting any extras, such as conference postcards, to add to packages. Whatever it is, they love to help.
Third, have a flexible To Do List. Prioritise your tasks and work out which things can be left off if needed. For example, the orders HAVE to go out today, but updating your blog can wait until the evening or another day.
Fourth, automate as much as possible. Things that can be automated include your ordering process so customers can put orders through right away, post date blog posts so that posts still appear when things are busy, schedule your newsletter so it goes out on time. There are many tasks that can be automated to make life easier and business running smoother so if they kids are demanding your attention, you can give it to them.
Fifth, outsource. Some of my friends joke that I’m the queen of outsourcing! I outsource editing the magazine, organising our conference, even my email newsletter! This ensures that tasks get done and they don’t rely on me to do everything, giving me time to play lego, or whatever.
And lastly, accept that kids can be unpredictable. I know I’ve said it before, but it can’t be stressed enough. For example, in the course of writing this post, my 4 year old has asked for 3 cuddles, a drink, something to eat, and a request to play lego with him - and I thought he was happy playing lego on his own!
I’ll leave you with those tips today, and will add some more in coming posts. It’s time to go and play lego.